(6:10:46am). babe! wake up i need to come stay with you! bay! 911....
that is what i was woken up by tuesday morning. my first thought was "why are you awake soo early &. what did you do thats requiring you to come ALL THE WAY to vegas to 'Runaway'.? so as i began to listen to this drama filled story and offer my advise (because me harboring fugitives was NOT an option.!) i suddenly noticed how often this happens to me, where guys i was talking to, dating, or exclusive with run to me as soo as something wrongs terribly wrong in their life AFTER we break up, stop talking, or i just flat out cut you off.!
what about me says "here i am to save the day.!" i've come to think that its because im so willing to help out my friends well the people that are important to me. often times providing for them before i do for myself. but thats just the way i was raised... constantly watching my mom help &. share &. cater to people all the time.
but i was once told by some random person when someone asks a favor of you if you dont want them to ask again when they say Thank you dont say "You're welcome" in return, by saying you're welcome is just allowing them to ask you again... but seems impolite right.? we were taught to say you're welcome when told thank you... but if taken litterally you're welcome is simply allowing that person to ask again... &. maybe not intentionally but could that be why the same people in my life ask me for the same favors all the time.? is it because i say you're welcome all the time or because they ask and i say yes.?
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